- 7:00 AM, Monday,
December 27th, 2021:
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- Maybe it's because
I've had so little disappointment the past ten years,
maybe it's because I see everything through my kid's
eyes... but this ranks as one of the biggest
disappointments I've ever experienced...
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- It's weird to say
that considering my life 2000-2010 was massive,
earth-shattering disppointments. This isn't a divorce,
this isn't a death... but the way it happened
is so, fucking, crushing. To say we've looked forward
to this for years (haven't been back since 2018) is to
say the least. I guess it's like I said in the
video: there really is this feeling that I may
never see family members again. Even Vienna said to
me, which I'm just now grasping: "What if they die
before we get to see them?". She said it so
matter-of-factly. I just said we have no control over
that, we're gonna go back for Spring Break, that's
only a couple months away...
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- ...but there is
certainly a sense that if they could cancel this 4
hours before takeoff, the entire world is up in the
air. I hate the kids are learning this lesson so
young. A lesson I learned in my 20s and 30s that
NOTHING is certain and EVERYTHING could be pulled away
from you... that's not what ya wanna learn at 8 and 9.
You need to have a belief and faith that things are
going to happen. Things to look forward to. Things to
work for. This is scary. It's a very adult lesson for
a very adult world.
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- Now, in the scheme
of things? Is there a better week to stay home than
the week after Christmas? With new toys to play with?
I even promised them I would work on the loft during
this extra week (something that was gonna be months
away) and try to have it finished before school starts
again on the 3rd. They liked that (no pressure Adam,
just construct something out of thin fucking air -
lol). We did, thankfully, mention 2 days ago that
there was a possibility that this would happen as
flights were being cancelled because of staff
shortages due to COVID. The problem? By the time we
got to noon (our flight was at 4:40pm), I said out
loud "Shit, if they haven't cancelled it by now,
they're not going to because that airplane is already
in the air." Late flights are usually at the end of
several flights that day. The crew doesn't start their
shift at 4:40pm, they END their shift. But clearly
someone tested positive and thank the FUCK CHRIST
I checked my email to see it was cancelled because we
were packing the car and could've VERY easily
been in the airport. Like - every SECOND closer to
takeoff would've made that worse.
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- Oh their little
tears. Like when kids cry because of stupid shit?
You're like, whatever. HAHAHA. I mean, I don't
actually say that to them - but they cry about damn
near everything sometimes and it does lessen the
meaning. But when you see your kid cry about something
legit? Like, oh, thinking their grandparents are gonna
die before they get to see them again? Yeah that's
heavy. That's burned into their brain. That's burned
into your brain. They will never forget this
feeling.
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- But we huddled on
the floor of that bar and worked it out. We're a
strong family. I actually love that the security
cameras caught this fuzzy image. You can't hear what
we're saying, it's private... but you can feel it.
It's why I love the discipline of The Journey. We have
to document this. In fact it's probably gonna fuck up
the end of the year numbering but that's life. Bombs
fall and ya gotta navigate them.
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- I will make
lemonade out of this starting today. Good little
lesson there.
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- Adam
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