- 8:37 PM,
Wednesday, November 10th, 2021:
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- Still boggles the
mind that this has disrupted three separate school
years...
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- This will probably
read like a defensive entry, but I assure you I'm just
trying to get this in stone because looking back I'm
certain I'll ask the same question that several
friends and some family members have asked: "After all
you've sacrificed for Cam, why aren't you waiting
until they're fully vaccinated!?!" So here it
is...
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- After the full
year of Zoom school we already knew they probably
wouldn't get that first shot before school. We hoped,
but we understood that as long as the adults were all
vaccinated and everyone was wearing masks? This was a
worthy risk. Kids simply don't spread it in the
numbers that adults do (a fact I still don't fully
understand, but the science is clear on that one) and
again, every adult in the school being vaccinated
mirrors what we had done all summer - let them hang
with kids as long as the older family members were
vaxxed...
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- And then,
inexplicably like 2 weeks before school started - the
school announces they aren't mandating that teachers
and employees are vaxxed. I promptly lost my
shit. Look at August. Our kids didn't have the OPTION
to protect themselves, the
VERY FUCKING LEAST that a school could do
was require the adults protect them, but alas - there
we were. Having to tell the kids after an entire
summer of counting down the days: sorry, not going
back.
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- However? This time
there was no zoom school... they had "independent
study" with a daily one-hour check-in from 3-4pm. On
paper, this sounded light years better than the
previous year which was a full day with intermittent
breaks. We could take it leisurely, even take outdoor
trips during the day... and initially we did that. The
problem is school got harder in 2nd and 3rd grade and
the kids needed individual teaching from Talya for two
different grades. Her mother soon came to help but it
was really hard. The length that they had been away
from school was starting to affect everyone. Having to
get everything done by 3pm, which seemed easy, was
anything BUT and of course Cam was still determined to
get his 10,000 steps every day (something he has now
done for close to 8 straight months without missing a
day). Throw all that into a pot? Anxiety. Constant,
unending, anxiety. No direction. Teacher that grades
their work isn't the teacher in the check-in... it's a
constant stream of videos and workbooks and the kids
need an adult to walk them through every, fucking,
moment. I was able to help a few times with Vienna and
math, but because of work I couldn't be relied on.
August and September were a sunuvabitch and the
thought of waiting until January seemed to now be
detrimental to everyone's emotional health. Believe it
or not, this is the first time that truly became clear
as we've done pretty well with the quarantine. But
now? The kids were suffering and the adults were
suffering...
...and then the magic happened: they announced that
they would INDEED be mandating vaccines for
teachers and they had to prove it by October 22nd or
be fired. And believe it or not, they did indeed fire
a LOT of people in our school disrict. Still blows my
goddamned mind that EDUCATORS couldn't research mRNA
technology without misinformation scaring them. These
are college-educated people. How the literal
shit.
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- Anyway... at that
moment? The following Monday, October 25th, we
could've sent them under the exact same conditions we
were prepared to in August. However that was also when
the FDA was about to approve emergency use
authorization and it just seemed silly to not at least
wait until their first shot. 7-10 days after that
shot? Antibodies are formed and they're at roughly 50%
efficacy. Which means they're well beyond what we
initially wanted for them to go back. Because of some
strange days off - their first day back is now Tuesday
the 16th and because of Thanksgiving they will only
have 6 total school days until their 2nd shot... so to
us, it was a no-brainer. These kids have to go back.
We cannot continue this routine anymore.
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- Their fully vaxxed
date will still be December 7th... but for all intents
and purposes life will return to normal (but masked)
on November 16th. A date that will mark over 20 months
in quasi-quarantine and I'm already tearing up
thinking about that moment.
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- We've made it. And
if somehow the kids get COVID before they're fully
vaxxed? I will have just written the most embarrassing
and irresponsible entry of my life.
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- You guys... isn't
parenting in the 2020s the BEST?
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- Adam
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