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               #2051 1:44 PM - July
               14th, 2020  And goddamn, even
               this is going to be heavier than I intended it to
               be. 2020, amirite? So as I raved
               about the Quest and the inescapable feeling of "being
               somewhere else" I quickly thought of my parents
               who I miss. I got my mom a Nintendo Switch so she
               could play Animal Crossing with the kids and she ended
               up getting her own Quest soon after. I knew my dad was
               busy with work (my mom is retired) and I didn't want
               to wait until next year... ...so
               I bought him an early 70th birthday
               present...  Such a fun feeling
               to be able to gift something to someone special and
               know they truly appreciate it. And as I touched
               on it in the video, "I don't know when I'll see you
               again..." is a subtle way to say "I may never see you
               again." That's really te reality of life right now.
               Now after some heart scares 20 years ago and a focus
               on his weight 10 years ago... my dad has become
               incredibly healthy and is presently actually lighter
               than me. Fucking wonderful, I couldn't be happier for
               him... ...but life has a
               way of surprising you and after a certain age, you
               realize every moment with your parents could be the
               last moment. And thanks to our incredible leadership,
               I can't travel. The only conceivable way my
               family could even remotely visit Ohio is renting an
               RV. And I'm not sure my kids are ready for that
               journey. Though, in a moving house it's pretty fun.
               Finding or purchasing one of those is hard as fuck
               these days and our HOPE is that by next spring we
               can leave our house. Our hope.
                So, yeah -
               I bought this because if I can never see my
               father again, I want to at least spend time with him
               in virtual reality. It's different than face-time. We
               got him set-up and even though in the golf game it's
               just a hat and a putter... it looks like him. It moves
               like him. And we really are just hanging out on a golf
               course. The excitement of the technology soon vanishes
               and you're just standing or sitting there talking
               about life... but it feels like my visits to Ohio.
               That's the crazy part. The times when my dad and I
               would go to Tee Jayes late night and just talk. In VR
               it feels just like that. You're not aware of a camera
               on you... you're just hanging out. It's
               wonderful. So happy I'm in a
               place where I can do this.  Happy 70th
               Birthday (11/26/20) pops! Adam |