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2:31 PM, Friday, May 25th, 2018:   Talya...   No one is ever going to understand the inner workings of our marriage or why it works except me and you. The ways things are supposed to work are often generational, societal... or completely made up in the moment because people have opinions. None of it matters, just us.   Presently, your role is kicking, your, ass. You are over your head, shit's falling everywhere, it's absolute chaos and you're learning/failing/relearning on the fly. You feel judged, you can sense when I'm annoyed but the one thing you don't hear enough is this:   I DON'T ACTUALLY GIVE A SHIT.   I didn't marry for organization. I didn't marry for help. I didn't marry for support. I didn't marry for any of the things that your brain tells you you're supposed to be. I married you because I really loved you and like being around you. That's it! That hasn't changed. Life has changed. Fuckin A it has changed, but the fundamentals of our union are STRRROOOOOOOONNNNNNNNG. So breathe easy knowing that no matter how bad you think you are at A, B, or C (and to be honest, a few of the letters ya can't even get to, and that's totally ok), it doesn't change my love for you. It doesn't change me wanting to be with you, on you, around you, in you (sorry readers, this is still my journal) and all the other things we do that makes us, us.   Just keep trying, just keep going and know that you are my earth angel and I CHOSE YOU.      These chapters are FLYING by and you'll miss the chaos. And all things considered you're doing an amazing job. No one truly understands what you are battling each day. They see the cute pictures and videos we choose to show them because we would be unfriended if they had to listen to 1/65th of what we do each day. Love you, love you, love you,   Adam